Why We Can’t Blame Abuse on Alcohol
Dispelling the common myth that batterers abuse because they’re drunk, and will stop when sober By DomesticShelters.org It’s all too often heard that someone’s partner is only mean/violent/abusive when they’re…
Abuse Cannot Be Blamed on Mental Illness
Research shows abusers are no more likely to be mentally ill than others By DomesticShelters.org Abusers love excuses. They only yelled at you because they were drunk. They only hit…
A Guide to Celebrating the Holidays After Trauma
The holidays after abuse are for new beginnings, new traditions and finding your joy again Amanda Kippert Mariah Carey season, I mean, the holiday season, is upon us! While many…
How to End Your Victim Mindset
An important step to healing your psyche after escaping domestic violence By DomesticShelters.org The physical wounds of domestic violence often heal well before the emotional ones are even fully understood.…
A Guide to Cyberstalking
A Guide to Cyberstalking How to combat an abuser who’s gone online to stalk and control a victim By Amanda Kippert Cyberstalking is the misuse of technology to harass, stalk…
After Domestic Violence, Kids May Cope Through Outbursts
After Domestic Violence, Kids May Cope Through Outbursts How to curb this behavior and help your child heal in a healthier way Children who are exposed to domestic violence may…
How Abusers Trick Survivors Into Denying Abuse
How Abusers Trick Survivors Into Denying Abuse A five-step manipulation process Take it back. Victims of domestic violence sometimes retract their claims against their abusers for various reasons, including being…
Couples Counseling Will Not Stop Abuse
Couples Counseling Will Not Stop Abuse Seek individual therapy if you suspect you’re being controlled Has your partner started yelling more frequently? Maybe they’ve become jealous for seemingly no reason.…