How Survivors Get Falsely Accused of Domestic Violence
The U.S. justice system can fail survivors, and false accusations may become another form of abuse By Stephanie Thurrott Jun 02, 2025 Key Takeaways: Survivors of domestic violence are often…
10 Excuses Domestic Violence Survivors Tell Themselves
By Amanda Kippert Aug 14, 2024 It should go without being said, no one ever intends to be in a relationship with an abusive partner. In fact, most of us…
What Is Blame-Shifting?
Abusers often have a very hard time taking responsibility for their actions, blaming the survivor for their choices instead By Amanda Kippert Apr 02, 2025 Key Takeaways: Blame-Shifting is a…
Whats the Difference Between Violence and Abuse?
Abuse isn't always violent, and violence isn't always abuse. Understanding the difference can help survivors better identify harm and find safety. By Stephanie Thurrott May 12, 2025 Key Takeaways: Violence…
How Abusers Use Intimidation as a Form of Psychological Abuse
Some abusers use intimidation to torment and control survivors. It can be hard to escape the threat of violence or danger and the fear emotional violence causes By Stephanie Thurrott…
What Is Emotional Abuse?
A comprehensive guide to understanding what emotional abuse looks like and how to free yourself from an abusive partner By Amanda Kippert Mar 16, 2026 This piece was originally published…
You Ask, We Answer: Domestic Violence FAQs
Answers to your top questions about domestic abuse and intimate partner violence By Hannah Craig Apr 07, 2026 If you're here, you might have questions about your relationship or what's…
What Is Trauma Bonding?
Understanding the emotional and physiological pull that keeps survivors attached By Amanda Kippert May 11, 2026 Key Takeaways: Trauma bonding is a powerful attachment created by cycles of abuse and…
What Gaslighting Sounds Like in Real Life—“That’s Not What Happened”
From denial to blame-shifting, gaslighting shows up in phrases that can make you question your own reality By Amanda Kippert Jun 10, 2026 This story was originally written in 2015.…
The Silent Ways Abusers Control
Without saying a word, an abuser can threaten, control and coerce a victim with these tactics By Amanda Kippert Dec 14, 2022 It’s easy to spot an abusive partner when…