Sexual Coercion in Intimate Relationships: Eight Tactics
When sex in a couple is not exactly violent, but not entirely voluntary, either By Lisa Aronson Fontes, PhD Sexual coercion refers to using nonviolent means to pressure an unwilling…
Sexual Assault Is More Than Rape
How to recognize if you’re a victim By DomesticShelters.org There’s a misconception out there that sexual assault is simply another way to describe rape or attempted rape. Every other type…
We Need to Talk About Sexual Assault in April
Increasing awareness may be the key to stopping it By Amanda Kippert Many a month has a cause attached to it. We wear ribbons, organize walks and post a meaningful…
3 Steps to Break the Domestic Violence Cycle in Kids’ Lives
With the right help, children can learn how to break the cycle of domestic abuse By Hannah Craig This story was originally published in 2017. It was updated in 2023.…
Can He Rape Me if We’re Married?
Marital rape is a very real—and very illegal—offense By Amanda Kippert This piece was originally published in 2014. It was updated in 2023. Marital rape is a serious form of…
Survivor Story: Lorel Stevens
Young, vulnerable and trusting, she lived through abuse hoping to find love By DomesticShelters.org It started with comments about her clothing—her skirt was too short, and he didn’t want her…
How to Protect Yourself From Post-Separation Abuse
An abuser might use these tactics to try to keep their hold on you even after you escape. Here are some strategies you can use to stay safe By Stephanie…
Fragmented Memories: How Trauma Can Cause Memory Loss
Our brains can be injured by both physical and psychological abuse By Amanda Kippert A domestic violence survivor calls the police after her abusive partner is violent. It isn’t the…
A Guide to Healthy Relationships
Signs that indicate you’re in a healthy relationship with a safe partner By Amanda Kippert If you’re on this site, you likely know something about unhealthy relationships, toxic individuals, red…
Why It’s Important to Say “Died By Domestic Violence”
Using accountable language holds abusers accountable for murder By Amanda Kippert Do a quick scan of the headlines and you’re likely to see a few stories about homicide. Statistically speaking,…