But, I Love Him
Is love enough to overcome abuse? It’s true, he hurts me. He’s controlling, and it’s starting to really get me down. I should just leave. But, I love him. If…
Rules vs. Rights
More and more shelters are taking a fewer-rules-are-better approach to give power back to survivors September 25, 2017 By domesticshelters.org Maybe you were told when to speak and what you…
This Is Why I Didn’t Tell You He Was Beating Me
Understanding the mind-set of a domestic violence victim is almost impossible to do. Unless, like this writer, you’ve been one. October 05, 2016 By Janice Fuller-Roberts When I fled my…
Caught in the Middle
What to do when your abuser tries to turn your children against you Abuse is multifaceted. An abuser will use whatever tactics he or she can to hurt you physically,…
Calling a Hotline When There Are Barriers In Your Way
In Part-3 of our series, we talk about how to reach out to a domestic violence hotline when circumstances make you feel like you can’t. September 11, 2017 By domesticshelters.org…
This Is What Abuse Looks Like
Spotting the signs, red flags and warning signals of abuse could save your life Sometimes the hardest part about getting help when you’re with an abuser is recognizing that you’re…
Staying Strong After Leaving the Shelter
Why some survivors consider returning to an abusive partner Make no mistake about it—seeking help from a domestic violence shelter is a courageous, bold and strong decision. Shelters can be…
Confronting Sexual Assault
What is Sexual Assault? Sexual assault is a violent crime in which the assailant uses sex to inflict violence and humiliation on the victim or to exert power and control…
What About My Kids?
If you’re a parent with an abusive partner, the safety, wellbeing and future of your children are top of mind. We’ve prepared a toolkit to help you navigate leaving an…
Sexual Assault Is More Than Rape
How to recognize if you’re a victim September 06, 2017 By domesticshelters.org There’s a misconception out there that sexual assault is simply another way to describe rape or attempted rape.…